I'm back from Las Vegas and the huge
Aging in America
conference. First off, it's
A National Forum on Civic Engagement which is
another word for giving back. Almost 500 people registered for this
all day session, it's capped at 360 of my new, closest friends.
This is where social workers travel to for a vacation. Folks from NYC
and Hawaii have stepped up to the mics. There's a lack of money for
social programs even when the economy is booming, so you can imagine
the lament here. Balancing the lack of funding is the overall
hope in the 'new administration'. I'm already feeling that many
aging issues are overwhelming for society.
At the break I met Imelda who runs a nursing home for Alzheimers
patients. Did I know of new communities based on home-like facilities,
housing 10-12 patients per home, connected to other next door homes,
all in clusters? No more long dark hallways, Boomers will like these
homes because they'll be more comfortable and communal, she offered. I
told her of our searching for assisted living and dad's increasing
dementia.
Then Imelda spotted Virginia Bell, author of
The Best Friends Approach to
Alzheimers Care. Virginia quickly probed, "does your father still recognize
you?". Of course. "One day he might not, but he'll be able to sense a
friend". Imelda agreed. So that's a simple take-away, concentrate on
sustaining a relationship as if I was a friend. Any corollaries,
Virginia? "Arguing never accomplishes anything." Something else for me
to remember.
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